Grati-Tuesday of a different kind…

Written by AHQ

10 March 2015

Hi all
For some reason, and for the first time in ages we have only received one thank you message that I can share on the blog tonight.  We don’t seem to be hearing much from those who are deployed on Operation Okra and I suspect that is because of the hours they are working, and who knows what other reasons. They do not have the easiest of conditions over there.  The bottom line is that they have a job to do and so do we. Many of us say that we do not do what we do for the thanks and now is the time to prove that we mean that.  

I am constantly left in no doubt as how much the troops appreciate what we do and I thought it might be time I share some of the reasons we do what we do.  This week I am in Canberra.   I am meeting recipients (always a JOY), catching up with friends and talking to people but the main reason I am here this week specifically is to present a brief to members of Joint Logistics Command on Friday morning.  Part of the focus of my presentation is to provide feed back as to how this organisation perceives the Defence Force.  Not an easy one for me to answer alone so I called on those that sew for us to tell me what they thought.  
I know that this blog (and facebook page) is not only read by quilters, and those who contribute to Aussie Heroes, but is also read by serving members, loved ones of serving members, ex-serving members and others.   I received too many messages of feedback to include into my presentation on Friday but instead, will provide an overall response taken from all the messages I received.   BUT I think many of these messages are too special and too heartfelt NOT to share them with those of you who read this blog.  

This is not all the responses I received but a good selection.

The question I asked was “What is your perception of the Australian Defence Force?”

So here goes…..

I’m so proud and so thankful for the service of my fellow Australians.  Knowing they are expertly trained in all that they do to keep our borders and people safe is a great comfort to me and I am happy to support them any way I can.

Pleased that we have such personal out there doing their best to make it a safer Australia. and trying to do their best for the countries they are sent to, and in whatever capacity they are in. Pleased to do my little bit to make their space outside Australia more pleasant and colourful

I view our defence forces as a group of people with the best interests of Australia at their core. They represent the values of this country nationally and internationally as strong, giving and flexible. They do a difficult job in difficult circumstances.

I think that the men & women that join our Defence Force and serve overseas sacrifice a normal life. Even the personnel that don’t serve overseas do things that normal people would never do. They put their lives on the line to keep us safe, our values, country & lifestyle the way we have made it. The Defence Force is also a mystery that we, the general public will never know all about, unless you are part of it.

When I think of the men and women who risk their lives for us as a nation,  on a daily basis, I am overwhelmed with thankfulness for their bravery, loyalty and discipline. I choose to think of them as people just like my own children, who deserve to be blessed and receive our kindness, so they can carry out their duties with their heads held high

We all KNOW there are service groups – Army – Air Force – Navy – Police – Fire Brigades, etc but unless we have personal involvement via a family member, or friend, we tend to accept they are ‘just there’ to be called on when needed.  My activities with AHQ gives me the opportunity to be totally aware of the people who make up these vital organisations. Their work and commitment becomes even more real and enormously humbling. The best we can do is to acknowledge and thank them ………………….and AHQ allows me an avenue to do just that.

PRIDE is the first thing that comes to mind.  Proud of the way these young Australians represent our country  while wearing their uniforms.  Many of them have never been overseas before, never been away from loved ones,family and friends. They are asked to  work extra long hours in  often inhospitable  environments along side peoples they can hardly communicate  with, let alone completely  trust. Yet they don’t complain, just grin and bear it and get on with the job.  Many back home in Australia  would want time out, better pay and working conditions.

So PRIDE and being very proud PROUD of our boys and girls in uniform is top of the list.

Of course we are immensely proud of the service of our deployed service people.  I know its part of their job, and what they are trained for, but the sacrifice made in terms of being away from home, family and friends in a dangerous and unpredictable environment, is indeed above admirable.  We will never know what they are going through and just hope that our efforts show our support for them while they are away and on their return.

Our Deployed Defence personnel…..our Sons and Daughters…..are the much needed Heroes that all Australians need right now.  They are a living, breathing lesson in Loyalty, Patriotism, Selflessness and Kindness and we should never, ever under-estimate the powerful role models they are for our youth. God bless them!

I guess I see our ADF personnel as people doing the job we don’t want. Being prepared to risk personal safety for our safety. (Sounds like emergency services too). Often young and adventurous, they are enjoying the thrill of the ride, uncertain of what is ahead.  I believe they learn to be brave and they don’t believe they are doing anything special, it is just their job. I think if they stopped long enough, they would feel lonely & forgotten. We are making sure that doesn’t happen. Our quilts & LB do make a difference. 


The ADF is an absolute essential service that keeps our nation protected and safe. It helps in aiding the United Nations in building up peace in our troubled world. Our government and the Australian public need to be constantly aware of what we are asking of our service people.

I have no personal contact with any of the ADF but I feel they are our unsung heroes, and, unfairly, they sometimes cop the fallout of some unpopular moves by our political leaders.
Most people would not think very much about them from day to day but when push comes to shove those same people would expect them to be there to defend and protect. 

I am biased but I think our Defence force is full of amazing, dedicated and giving personnel who generously serve our country and deserve a great deal of appreciation from all Australians for what they do.  When I am able I love to sew for the  A.D.F.

I know these people have joined the various services as a way to help sort out the problem areas of our world.  I appreciate that they are willing to stand up for our beliefs, that we are still trying to come to terms with.  We would all like to live in a world of peace and harmony, but there are selfish people who only think of themselves, and their religions. 
Family and friends are very important, and to think that there are people who have NO REGARD for other people, their family & friends, is very frightening.
I am glad there are people to put their lives out there to bring comfort and help sort things out.  I’m happy to bring a little joy, belonging, belief, thankfulness, regard, friendship, to “family” far from home.

Here we have men and women who give their time, and lives, to keep us safe at home.  But their work is also about  freedom for all people to live their lives without fear,  not just us Aussies.  They have my heartfelt respect and support

I have not had anything to do with anyone in the forces. My son wanted to go in the army. Unfortunately he lost his life before joining.  I am amazed at the strength of the people protecting our country and the that of their families.
I want to give to them to say thankyou..

Quilting for AHQ is my way if saying Thank you for what they do, serving our country being away from family and friends, sometimes in not so nice a place with not great surroundings, a quilt or laundry bag is the least I can do.

The men and women serving overseas, are the most honorable, true heroes of Australia. They put their lives on the line, leaving their families behind in order to serve and protect Australia.

Our boys and girls put their lives on the line for our country – so very grateful to them and thoroughly enjoy making laundry bags and quilts for them. 
It is only a small thing we do just to let them know that they are in our thoughts 
Thanks guys you are greatly appreciated

My views on the defence force are that I am very proud of the service they give to this wonderful country, to keep it free and maintain the best country in the world.   They give up time with their families, that they’ll never get back, they sacrifice many things for their service and doing the quilts is my way of saying thank you.     I appreciate their service and acknowledge it by making quilts.  
Married to a Vietnam Veteran, that suffers from PTSD, I believe we must support these men and women and continue to assure them that their job is important to us and the country, they are appreciated and valued for their service.

ADF are our extended family that we rarely have a chance to meet.

I am in the process of making my first Aussie Hero quilt and am thrilled to do so.
I view our Deployed Defence personnel as very special people and feel privileged to be able to make a quilt for them.
It’s like making a special occasion quilt for a family member.

I view our ADF as my heroes! They make me feel safe. They are such brave & willing men & women to defend our country as they do.

I consider the ADF as a quiet achiever..  hear nothing until actioned.. i.e. be it fires, floods, natural disasters at home or overseas, peace keeping missions, combat, plus of course, keeping Australia/Australians safe.  They are not taken for granted but admired, respected and appreciated.  It’s like having plans A-Z in the cupboard as continual and trusted backup.

Through my involvement with AHQ, of more than 2 years now,  I view the Defence Forces as having a very important role in our national security and international peace keeping.  I have received many emails and letters from recipients of my laundry bags and I feel very privileged to see the human side of the individuals involved in the Defence Forces.  Together with the thank you messages posted on the blog we are seeing ordinary people doing extraordinary jobs under very testing conditions.    We are calling them heroes but they don’t see themselves as that.

Also through AHQ, I have gained an understanding of how serious and widespread PTSD is.  We hear that the quilts, laundry bags, small gifts and letters we send boost morale and I hope that in the longer term the quilts and laundry bags may help to reduce the debiliating side effects of PTSD.


With compassion, gratitude and sincere thanks for their sacrifice (being away from loved ones and home soil;  putting their physical and mental health on the line as they follow directives for Australia’s best interests and often that of the broader world).

I view them as true patriots as they protect Australian interests, but also as humanitarians as they protect those who are vulnerable and help those who need it.  Our deployed staff (APS and Defence members) serve our nation proudly, and are above politics.

Proud, honoured, thankful & concerned for their safe return. They are Aussies … extended family of sorts?

I see our deployed personnel as  courageous men and women willing to offer the ultimate sacrifice for our country. Their families are brave too, because they make it okay for their men and women to serve Australia in peacetime and in war. 


Ok, really really honest answer…..
I forget they are there! I don’t know they are fighting for us! I forget to think about them! I go about my everyday life!
That’s why I joined Hero quilts, to keep me informed, and support them, and hopefully spread the word! …and to show them my thanks!

Before I joined your program I doubt I gave it a thought, even though my husband was in the regular army for over 10 years and his brother did 2 tours of Vietnam. I am of the conscription generation and so I could say I was ambivalent at best.
However recent events going as far as East Timor, 9-11 and others has brought the job these people do into the spotlight. Like our emergency service workers, they risk their lives to keep us safe. Not for accolades or “pay” but because this is the kind of people they are – protectors. And they do it away from their families!!!!! 
These people should be amongst the highest paid in our country – they deserve it. 
Since making the quilts and laundry bags, I consider all the recipients as “mine”. I am constantly sharing my experiences with family and friends and am often asked….
Where are you sending one off to now?
Have we got personnel in ?????
So I feel in my own way I am letting others know about the job these wonderful people do. 

What the Defence and and our deployed Public Service personnel mean to me.
We do not live in an ideal world, If we did there would not be a need for such service. but what they do in being out there, making a difference whilst being away from home and their own loved ones, making a difference in the world that we do live in is held in my esteem to be of the highest. 

Growing up after WWll, when the father’s of everyone at school had served overseas, I thought of the ADF as a military organisation used in wartime.  Now I’m aware of many other areas where their skills are used such as border protection, peacekeeping missions, humanitarian work and assisting after natural disasters. What would we do without them.

I see them as dedicated yet often unacknowledged men and women who are frequently used as political pawns. They make enormous sacrifices to protect our way of life.

Words….brave, selfless, patriotic, adventuresome,  believers in freedom and democracy, ‘ordinary’ people who feel the need to protect others unable to protect themselves
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There are a few messages that I may have missed as it is late and I am tired but also a couple that I have deliberately left out because the words are so powerful I don’t want to share them here till I have shared them on Friday.  

And just to end….. we need at least one photo so here is one to think on – this is one of our poppy quilts. This quilt has gone to the family of one of our heroes who was killed in action.  

May he rest in peace.
We who are not in uniform have much to be thankful and much to show our appreciation for.

Till next time………………keep spreading the word….

Jan-Maree xx

Bobbie S and the Mystery BOMers. Emb Joan Quilted by Philomena and added to by Bridget
LB Ruth S

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Good afternoon Hilary P,

I am writing to say thank you so much for the lovely quilt, laundry bag and letter!

I am amazed at the detail and thought you have put into the quilt for me and I can not thank you enough!It is something I will treasure for a long time and I will definitely be using the laundry bag on my next deployed or trip!

I really appreciate the time you took to write the letter noting how busy you and all the other volunteers are at AHQ. I hope the annual dinner in Canberra goes well. You all deserve to be celebrated for the work you do.

Even though I am back from my deployment now, I am honoured to know there are people like you out there, looking out for those of us away from family, friends and loved ones.

Thank you again!

Kindest regards,

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Dear Sue-Ellen S,

I’m in the Royal Australian Navy posted to HMAS Stuart and currently on deployment in Asia. I am 25 years old and I grew up in Melbourne and joined the RAN when I was 19 and I now live in WA. The other week I received the laundry bag you made along with your letter. Thank you so much for the laundry bag as its well made and the perfect size. I greatly appreciate the work you do with AHQ and at your local RSL (pulling beers is essential work 😊) and all others who volunteer. As a sailor a sturdy Dhobey bag (laundry bag) is very nice to have and makes life onboard just that bit much easier as the standard issue bags tend to rip and tear. I enjoyed reading your letter and hearing about your family military history. I hope your retirement is going well and I wish your sons the best.

Kindest regards,

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Hi Ruth S,

I just received my laundry bag that you compiled. It is fantastic, so thank you for your time and effort to make us veterans feel people care.

Again, thank you and take care

regards

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Good evening Sue-Ellen S,

I'm an electronics technician in the Royal Australian Navy, proud father to a rabbit named Pickles, and as of the other day, the even prouder owner of a majestic blue laundry bag covered in platypuses (or platypies... whatever the plural may be).

I must admit, I wasn't originally looking for a new laundry bag we get issued a fresh one with every new posting, after all. But the moment I saw that vibrant blue pattern and the platypuses (which happen to be my mother’s absolute Favorite animal and that felt a little bit like the universe was trying to tell me something), I knew I had to grab it right away.

Fun fact about the humble platypus: because they lay eggs and produce milk. So, if you're ever stuck in the bush craving an omelette a platypus is your one-stop shop!

On a more personal note, I hope your sons are doing well. Reading your letter, your pride in them and the work they do shines through so clearly. They are incredibly lucky to have such a supportive mother in their corner.

I personally have not attended one of the charity dinners for the Doby bag cause, however a ex of mine has in 2024, and apparently it was quite the shindig.

Thank you so much for everything you do with your local RSL. The support you provide isn't just vital to active service members, it's a massive morale booster for the entire veteran community.

Please make sure to enjoy a well-deserved pint (or several) after reading this. You’ve more than earned it.

Warm regards,

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Dear Hilary T,

I would like to express my gratitude to you for the beautiful laundry bag that you so skilfully created. I was gifted it after completing a deployment. The design and craftsmanship is impressive.

I am a member of the Australian Army Reserves and work as a signaller. I too originate from overseas- I am Scottish, and like you moved to Australia for better weather and more of an outdoor lifestyle for our children to grow up in. It has been such a beautiful country to live in and we appreciate all of the opportunities that we have been given. I joined the Reserves as a way of serving and giving something back. (I am a Sonographer in my full time job. )

I will be proud to use the laundry bag whenever I am away with Army and once again, thank you so much.

Kindest regards,

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Good Afternoon Clarissa L,

I'm a Soldier at the 2nd Cavalry Regiment and was very fortunate to receive a laundry bag sewn by yourself from Aussie Hero Quilts. I know I and everyone who received one was very grateful for your token of appreciation and to know that we're being thought of. It will be very handy as I'm about to step off on a six week task within Australia. Again thank you very much for giving up your valuable time to help ADF Personnel across the globe, it's greatly appreciated!

Kind regards,

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Dear Janice L,

Thank you so very much for my new laundry bag (its going to get a good work out) it is very hot on our current deployment.

I just wanted to tell you a little about myself. I’ve been serving in the Royal Australian Navy for 15 years now. During that time I have had the opportunity to work across Submarines, Supply ships and ANZAC Class frigates. (currently on HMAS Stuart) It’s been a challenging career, but one that I am proud of and enjoy. I have also been lucky to have some incredible experiences.

I have a wife and Family of 4 children (not including our dog JJ) back home in Rockingham, WA. We come from Brisbane but I had to move to WA when I started working on Submarines. One of the hardest parts of the job is spending time away from them.

The Navy is a big part of my life but my family keeps me grounded.

I hope this gives you a little insight into who I am. Thank you to Aussie Hero quilts and your self for the quilt.

Kind regards,

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Hello Hilary T,

I'm the recipient of the Bag you made and had sent to the 2nd Cavalry Regiment. I'm writing to thankyou for the lovely bag / letter and to express my gratitude for your support through Aussie Hero Quilts.

To let you know abit about the recipient of your bag, I was born and raised in Newcastle so I'm well aware of the beautiful country that is the Nelson bay area and try to take the opportunity to show it to my Cairns born partner whenever I get the chance, it just goes to show how close we probably were at one point even though we know live on the other side of the country.

I joined the Army in 2020 and commissioned through the Royal Military College - Duntroon in Canberra and was allocated to the Royal Australian Armoured Corps as a Cavalry Officer. Since then I have been posted to the School of Armour in Puckapunyal as an instructor then to the 2nd Cavalry Regiment in Townsville.

I thankyou again for your work and hopefully you know how much these bags were appreciated by everyone at the Regiment.

Kind regards,

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Hi Janice B,

I just wanted to email you and let you know I received my quilt and laundry bag.

I love them. I have read the Eragon series and recognised the Dragon right away. Not gonna lie, I squealed a little.
Also I did test the laundry bag and kept laughing.

My uncle was a submariner as well so we have a lot in common it seems! I loved reading your letter and about all your
adventures.

Thank you once again for my quilt and Laundry bad. I love them and appreciate all the effort you and your team put into
them.

Kind regards

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Hi Lois S,

Thank you so much for the beautiful quilt. I received it in perfect condition, and I wanted to let you know that it was exactly what I was after. The design, colours and space theme are fantastic, and I can see the incredible amount of work and care that went into creating it. The embroidered patches, ISS, Saturn V and Space Shuttle are particularly impressive, and knowing that they took around 250,000 stitches makes me appreciate it even more.

I also really enjoyed reading about your time in Florida and your visits to the Kennedy Space Center and Cape Canaveral. Watching the launch of Discovery STS-120 must have been an amazing experience.

Like you, I have been to the Kennedy Space Center multiple times, and I honestly think it is one of the best places to visit in Florida. Every visit has been memorable, and as someone with an interest in space exploration, I never get tired of seeing the exhibits, launch facilities and history on display.

Thank you again for your generosity, time and effort in making the quilt. It will be something I treasure for many years to come. I truly appreciate the support you and the Aussie Hero Quilts community provide to veterans.

Kind regards,

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The following letter was published on the 26th August so it may be familiar. We have now received permission to publish the photo so I thought it was very tied in with the letter, it deserved a second publishing:

Dear Shirley D,

I hope this email finds you well.

I recently received the amazing laundry bag that you made for me through Aussie Hero Quilts while serving with the Australian Contingent in the Sinai as part of the Multinational Force and Observers. Thank you for the incredible time, care and generosity that went into making it. Receiving a parcel from home is always appreciated, but receiving something handmade by a complete stranger was something quite special and I couldn't be more grateful.

I also wanted to thank you for taking the time to write such a personal letter. I genuinely enjoyed reading about your family, your textile art, and the remarkable work you have done supporting Australian service personnel since 2015.

Of everything you wrote, it was the story of your father that resonated with me the most. During this deployment, I had the privilege of leading a battlefield study of Alexandria and El Alamein four our contingent, where we walked the ground, visited the Commonwealth War Cemetery and reflected on the actions fought there. Reading about your father's service with the 2/24th Battalion, and the sacrifices he made at both El Alamein and later in New Guinea, made me incredibly proud of his service and privileged to have stood on the same ground where he and so many other Australians fought. It also struck me that, more than eighty years later, an Australian soldier is serving in the same region while receiving a laundry bag made by the daughter of one of those veterans. That is a connection I will never forget.

I also wanted to say how much I appreciated the Egyptian theme of the laundry bag. It was clear how much thought went into making something that reflected where I was serving, and the pyramids, the colours of sand and the kangaroos could not have been more fitting for my deployment with the MFO. It has already become one of my favourite keepsakes from my time in the Sinai and will be coming home to Australia with me when I return.

I've attached a photo taken overlooking the Gulf of Aqaba at South Camp shortly after I received your parcel. I thought you might enjoy seeing where your laundry bag ended up.

There are many people who contribute quietly to Australia's military capability without ever wearing a uniform. Your generosity, talent and countless hours of volunteer work are part of that contribution. Although we have never met, your kindness reached me on the other side of the world and made a genuine difference.

Thank you again for everything you do for Australian service men and women. It is deeply appreciated.

Kind regards,



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Cheers Catherine D

Until next week keep your letters, emails and photos coming in. Wednesdays would be so totally boring without them!

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  1. Sue Niven

    Heartfelt thanks to all those wonderful men and women who serve. Thanks for this wonderful post. I echo every single thought.

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